Should you be bleeding on first time sex? Here’s what you must know!

Verified by Dr. Vaishali Sakpal Rane (MBBS, DGO Obstetrics and Gynaecology, DNB Obstetrics and Gynaecology)

A really common question that comes to our mind while thinking about first time sex is that “Should you be bleeding on first time sex or not”? It's a common misconception that everyone with a vaginal sex bleeds the first time they have intercourse. The first time you engage in penetrative sex, bleeding is typical and quite acceptable, yet many people don't bleed at all. The penetration may cause bleeding since it can damages the hymen which is a thin piece of tissue that surrounds the vaginal opening.

A membrane called the hymen is located close to the vaginal entrance.A common misconception is that sexual activity "pops" the hymen, causing it to rupture and bleed.  Sex is defined differently by each individual. Some people would only classify an act as sex if a penis enters the vagina. If it involves oral sex, other individuals can view it as sex.Others may define sex as the use of sex objects and of fingers.

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In addition to having your first sexual experience, other factors might cause your hymen to rupture, including as

• sports and horseback riding, among other things

• employing tampons

Therefore, it's not necessarily a sign that someone has had sex previously if they have a damaged hymen. Due to the fact that it doesn't always pain or bleed, you might not realise your hymen has broken. The first time you have vaginal intercourse, it could feel a little awkward, but it shouldn't hurt.There are certain things that can make first-time sex less unpleasant, such as firstly taking pleasure in foreplay, such as kissing and caressing, ensuring that your vagina is properly lubricated; you may wish to consider using a lubricant and being kind and moving gradually

You should consult a doctor if you bleed during sex that you have had before. This is due to the fact that bleeding during or following intercourse may indicate a medical issue that requires attention.

Any abnormal bleeding, regardless of how little or much it is, should be examined, is a solid general rule of thumb. Your uterus is communicating with you when you have an abnormal symptom and telling you something is wrong. Although it's not necessarily terrible, have it checked out if it keeps happening or if you're just worried.

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