What are orgasms and how do they work?

In this article, we will try to answer all the questions related to orgasm. 

How does it happen? What happens in it? Are they safe? Do they help us? To know the answers, keep reading.

An orgasm is a sense of release that you might feel if you have been sexually stimulating yourself in any way. This can include touching, 

stroking, toys or oral sex and while using it your excitement builds up and after a certain point you have this sense of release.

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We often hear that masturbation is a sin which is a myth. Orgasm makes you feel happy and everyone likes it.  Orgasm leads to good heart health. They release happy chemicals in your body that make you feel closer to your partner or yourself in case you are doing it to yourself. Aside from this orgasm can help you sleep better, it helps you to find out what you like. If you don't get the orgasm you can masturbate and understand what you like. Getting an orgasm is a win-win. 

Women often find it hard to get an orgasm. You probably have been lied all your life about how to get an orgasm. According to a survey, less than 20% of all women have a vaginal orgasm which means over  80% of women don't orgasm from vaginal penetration. If you are in a relationship and you are wondering why you don't get an orgasm then you are not alone. If you are wondering why you are not getting an orgasm during penetration, here is the reason. The clitoris is a large organ which is covered and only the pea size of it is visible, if you stimulate that pea-sized part then you will experience an orgasm. This is how it works. On the other hand during vaginal penetration, the wall of the clitoris gets stimulated indirectly and this is how people get an orgasm from penetration but not everyone gets it. Mostly orgasm doesn't work because people often push the wrong button and the right button is the little pea-sized clitoris. Go find it using a mirror and understand your body.